When approaching girls in the day time you want to keep the interactions as short as possible unless you are trying to bounce down the street for an instant date. It does not matter what you say as long as it gets her attention. You can say she is adorable and you had to come meet her or just say you like her hat. As long as it gets her to stop and talk to you your on the right track. Be genuinely curious about her and get her number. Say something funny like you know an awesome place to get mac n cheese that no one has heard of (your house ;). Be relaxed when you are talking to her. Its no big deal and you just had to come meet her. It may take a bit of practice before you can become truly relaxed but it will come in time.
When you are honest about why you came to talk to her she will feel this and become attracted. Be persistent but not over bearing. Especially if she is very hot she will be used to guys hitting on her all the time. Keep at it and see what happens. And it is totally OK if you make mistakes. Just blame it on the girl for being so cute. Guys who pretend they are perfect and they never make mistakes are trying way too hard. It is better if you make mistakes, no on purpose, and laugh it off. She will take this as you not being too serious about yourself which is great.
I always try and push for the instant date but sometimes it just doesn't happen. Ask her to join for smoothies , a bite to eat, or a coffee at starbucks. It is best to try for this because you can get to know the girl more and see if you guys are going to get along. Plus its even possible if you guys hit it off to go right back to your place. Always be moving the interaction forward either physically or just getting to know each other. When there is no movement everything becomes static and just plain dull. So push for the instant date but don't worry about it if it doesn't happen. Text her/call her and take it from there. Go approach some cute girls.
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