Saturday, January 15, 2011

Approaching and Attracting girls during the Day Time

When approaching girls in the day time you want to keep the interactions as short as possible unless you are trying to bounce down the street for an instant date. It does not matter what you say as long as it gets her attention. You can say she is adorable and you had to come meet her or just say you like her hat. As long as it gets her to stop and talk to you your on the right track. Be genuinely curious about her and get her number. Say something funny like you know an awesome place to get mac n cheese that no one has heard of (your house ;). Be relaxed when you are talking to her. Its no big deal and you just had to come meet her. It may take a bit of practice before you can become truly relaxed but it will come in time.

When you are honest about why you came to talk to her she will feel this and become attracted. Be persistent but not over bearing. Especially if she is very hot she will be used to guys hitting on her all the time. Keep at it and see what happens. And it is totally OK if you make mistakes. Just blame it on the girl for being so cute. Guys who pretend they are perfect and they never make mistakes are trying way too hard. It is better if you make mistakes, no on purpose, and laugh it off. She will take this as you not being too serious about yourself which is great.

I always try and push for the instant date but sometimes it just doesn't happen. Ask her to join for smoothies , a bite to eat, or a coffee at starbucks. It is best to try for this because you can get to know the girl more and see if you guys are going to get along. Plus its even possible if you guys hit it off to go right back to your place. Always be moving the interaction forward either physically or just getting to know each other. When there is no movement everything becomes static and just plain dull. So push for the instant date but don't worry about it if it doesn't happen. Text her/call her and take it from there. Go approach some cute girls.

How to dress attractive:

Dressing attractive is very important. I know many guys think that if they have good enough game they don't need to worry about their appearance. But by not caring about your appearance you make it much harder for you to get girls. When your appearance is on and rocking it gives you a huge edge to get the ladies. Now I am not saying you need to subscribe to GQ and go out and approach male models on how they dress well. Just think one cool motherfucker when you look at yourself in the mirror:

DO's


  • Leave your shirt unbuttoned (I don't care if it looks gay do it!) 
  • Wear clothes that layer (thin hooded shirt with a badass jacket works like a charm)
  • Nice fitting jeans ( not too tight but not too baggy) 
  • get a nice haircut! (this seriously goes a long way)
  • Good smell and breath
DONT's 

  • Tuck your shirt in
  • Wear long white socks
  • EVER EVER wear a fanny pack
  • wear baggy clothes
  • combine sox and sandels
Now go show those GQ dudes whats up! 

How Arthur, Teenage mutant ninja turtles, and richard scary can get you laid...

Most guys over look the awesome power of pop culture in their interactions with girls. By talking about early childhood films, tv shows, books, and whatnot you access a deep memory back of amazing childhood times. It reverts you back to childhood. She will find this so refreshing than all the boring "what do you do?" "where are you from" questions. Instead you will be saying "HEY you remind me of DW from arthur!" or "I bet you still keep all your teenage mutant ninja turtles toys from when you were 5." She will become shocked and feel an instant connection with you. All the other dudes standing around will have the biggest "WTF" faces as the cutie in front of you is obsessed with everything you have to say now. Not all pop culture has to be from the past it can be in the present too which you can use to connect with any girl about. I know its hard to believe but all of this will get girls attracted. Go out and practice it! I mean who doesn't want to talk about their action figures from way back when.

The importance of keeping a journal

You should journal about all of your interactions with girls. This will help you remember what happened more viscerally and psychologically. By putting it down on paper you can see what worked and what didn't. You should keep this journal private and personal. Do not censor yourself at all. Whatever you feel like writing down..write it. It will show you how much you progress through each interaction you have and be a reminder of how far you have come. This does not need to be a shakespearian play or sonnet. Just the uncensored version of your awesome interactions with babes. 

When you old you can look back and see all the adventures you had. You will be the star of your own movie, the lead character of your novel, and the pilot of your plane. Now go make it happen and record everything. One day you may even publish it and make tons of money. Mack it then write it! :) 

The truth will set you free.... and get you girls. ;)

The most important thing about approaching girls is going for truth. Let me explain: When you approach a girl the only things on your mind should be "Wow! Who are you?" and "I'm curious about you and I want to know more..." Not things like "I hope she likes me" or "I better get her number." The latter will set you up for failure and keep you stuck in your head. When you focus on the girl and not yourself you make the interaction go much more smoothly. 

This is the single best mindset to have when hitting on babes. I know this sounds philosophical but it will attract girls like crazy. It should also be implemented in other areas of your life as well. It keeps you from becoming a faker. You will know to have to worry about what might happen because you will be going for the truth and living in reality instead of fantasy. 

You want to know the truth about you, the truth about her, and the truth about you and her together. If you do not approach you will never know what you guys could have been. Sometimes the truth hurts but at least you know the truth.  Instead of trying to become a MILF hunter become a TRUTH hunter. Once your a truth hunter you can go and get those MILFS. 

YOU CAN HANDLE THE TRUTH!